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General Discussionanyone wants to share personal problems here?

anyone wants to share personal problems here? in General Discussion
father

    so currently im going through some kind of depression or existential crisis or something like that, basically im currently having a lot of personal problems but i dont have anyone to talk to. could someone share their personal problems here so maybe by knowing that theres someone out there going through the same thing or worse than me would make me feel better and maybe be helps me deal with my problems

    HartzFear

      I dont even want to know most peoples Personal Problems in here, but im pretty Sure its a whol lot.

      kowareta

        by knowing that theres someone out there going through the same thing or worse than me would make me feel better

        feeling good about himself when see disabled ppl
        just kys :/

        DC.MASON

          no

          Cheap Laugh Guy

            I wonder what will the world be like when everybody gets existential crisis.

            Gard Pedersen

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              cartel

                shut up loser
                p.s. add me

                Kotato

                  i have a problem in sharing my problems

                  DSP

                    share your problem here, we can help you as far as possible.

                    Kotato

                      ^but that is my problem

                      father

                        alright i will start then, nothing awesome really. mom died when i was 9 because of cancer, been bullied since elementary school (not that extreme tho), no real friends, never interracted with my neighbors (i moved here years ago), parent obviously love my sibling more than me, losing at the genetic lottery; im ugly, not so smart, good at nothing, and i fucking hate this weird voice i have. well i guess im decent at playing guitar, gg nice trade 10/10

                        Kotato

                          OP, you need to learn about the philosophy of stoicism https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/5617966-a-guide-to-the-good-life . That will help a lot.

                          My second comment is that your description fits the story of quite a few super heros in comics... can you just try to see yourself that way?

                          Third comments: why dont you get a dog?

                          father

                            ^too bad i have no super power, i would probably be a bad guy if i have one though

                            ive always wanted to have a dog but my family are muslims and theres no way the would let me have a dog

                            DSP

                              Some activies to feel good :
                              - sport
                              - pets (Kotako is right) are awesome. Adopting a dog is an commitment but they give a lot.
                              - joining a club (sports or hobbies)

                              ywn

                                can u stop posting this stoicism shit l o l

                                Kotato

                                  funny enough but every human is also his own pet, why not to treat yourself with care and affection? :)

                                  PS can a muslim family adopt a cat?

                                  DSP

                                    muslims dont like dogs ?

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                                    cartel

                                      1- we love cats ..
                                      2- we love dogs...if i see a cute doggo in the street 9/10 times ill be petting that thing and buying it food
                                      some people are like it's not okay to have dogs in-doors...only for guarding cuz of the doggo saliva being considered impure but i've seen a lot who don't care about that ....
                                      3-op add me we can talk from 12-6 am im good

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                                      Feachairu

                                        there's probably alot of ways to fix your weird voice,you can go to some serious singing school or class or something

                                        you probably should stop seeing watever your genes or brooding something that you can't really control,just get over it it'll make you feel better i guess

                                        most people are good at nothing too,just do anything that needs to be done

                                        it's not really a fault if you not interacting with neighbours,most people dont even do interactions except just hello or something,if you do it's still good tho

                                        i'm not really sure why your parent doesnt love you but it might be just your feeling or something,you gotta do something to be loved tho,and i think it's okay if your other sibling is favored within a family,it's perfectly normal unless it's too extreme-ish of favoritism

                                        edit :i kind of assumed voice was for singing with your guitar but,if its about general talking convo stuff usually it's just you need to be confident,straighten your back and be clear on your words(make sure your mind actually knows what the hell are you going to say) and it's gonna sounds good to other ear,not yours probably

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                                        Mungo Time

                                          @火女

                                          "Some activies to feel good :
                                          - sport
                                          - pets (Kotako is right) are awesome. Adopting a dog is an commitment but they give a lot.
                                          - joining a club (sports or hobbies)"

                                          That's putting a plaster on your deeper issues, get to the root of the problem.

                                          Mungo Time

                                            @ Loser

                                            Take from this what you can

                                            I won the genetic lottery, and I'm the sibling that made my parents proud so on so forth.

                                            I was fortunate enough to play a sport on a professional level from the age of 19, but I got it taken away from me.

                                            After 8 big operations and having to carve a "new identity" for myself through this process I'm actually better off for it happening, maybe not in a financial sense, but psychologically, emotionally spiritually and physically.

                                            Long story short, you can climb the ladder through the chaos. It all depends on your perspective of things and your mindset.

                                            Kotato

                                              actually being ugly for a man is not a problem, girls do not care much about how guys look. If they did the population in east european countries would never increase

                                              poggies

                                                Sad.

                                                Ritsu x boni = 0 IQ

                                                  Add me dude, i can help you.

                                                  Hatrið mun sigra

                                                    I've been experiencing the exact same feelings you're experiencing for the last 14 years, no joke. Please don't make my mistake and go talk to a therapist. Time is gold and right now you're wasting it by having a distorted view of yourself that stems from absorbing other people's actions, judgments and bullying. You are not your experiences and you're not your past, don't ever forget this. Regarding your loss, it is very important that you process it in a healthy way and let go. If you haven't, again, go talk to a professional. Look for someone that can understand you and help you see the reality of things, 'cause I promise you it's not the one you're seeing.

                                                    Kan

                                                      Got quited from a previous work (on 4th of March). Worked there for 5 years. Now I don't know, when I will find a new work and what it will be. I am entering fog of war.

                                                      Lokieleven

                                                        I view too many memes and it is becoming a problem

                                                        Lokieleven

                                                          Btw not to meme, go to church or get help. Online articles or other people won’t cure your issue.

                                                          Tribo

                                                            Why is my visa delayed at US embassy helppp

                                                            Feachairu

                                                              because u gay

                                                              '96 Neve Campbell

                                                                I added you if you want to chat fren ^.^ I always like new people

                                                                Jacked

                                                                  M8 you might think looks are important and somewhat of a factor for the quality of your social life, But if the midget from game of thrones can be such a boss, you have no excuse !

                                                                  Also I may not be ugly. But I also have no friends! So there’s that. Hope it helps.

                                                                  Jacked

                                                                    Why haven’t you added me parma

                                                                    '96 Neve Campbell

                                                                      Because you never added nor asked to be added smh

                                                                      Jacked

                                                                        My account can’t add sadly

                                                                        '96 Neve Campbell

                                                                          I thought u dislike me anyway

                                                                          Jacked

                                                                            No way. Why would you think that.

                                                                            '96 Neve Campbell

                                                                              Im not sure... feels like you have disagreed with me before

                                                                              Jacked

                                                                                Perhaps. As I have with people like diox slq cukie. But that does not mean I don’t find them interesting.

                                                                                Jacked

                                                                                  In fact I’ve tried to reach out to diox and slq multiple times for friendship and failed.

                                                                                  mute all

                                                                                    i dont have any money..thats my problem.. HELP! T_T

                                                                                    Kan

                                                                                      I posted an comment on dotabuff, but people ignore me there. tt

                                                                                      Tribo

                                                                                        Lonely feelin so lonely

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                                                                                        Snowball

                                                                                          Get laid. Makes u feel much better, trust me. If you have problem finding a gf, get a professional hxxker. Hmm come to think of it, even if u have a gf, do consider getting another on the side, or a hxxker as well. Gives you a different perspective on life.

                                                                                          Tribo

                                                                                            No I just need my visa

                                                                                            cartel

                                                                                              NINE EIGHT SEVEN TRIPLE SIX FIVE FORKED TOOOOOOOOOOOOOOONGUE

                                                                                              Murranji

                                                                                                Been having heaps of problems with a new supervisor at work because of clash of personality, disrespect, passive aggressive behaviour. Finally confronted it by going to director and talking with the supervisor. Now this has thrown me back into major depression (lack of energy, lethargy, even thoughts about how I need to just put a rope around my neck). Since then now she is acting all nice but it’s now developed into anxiety whenever I talk to her - this afternoon I had a major “want to escape/runaway” anxiety attack. It’s pretty bad atm :(

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                                                                                                Potato Marshal

                                                                                                  I want to play Sekiro and rub it in the faces of people I know who don't get to play it till a day later than everybody else in Asia, but I have to go to work so now I'm going to be behind them. :bawl:

                                                                                                  DOTA 2 ARMORY

                                                                                                    Rofl, imagine having problems, sounds like yall nibbas got brain damage

                                                                                                    Kathir-

                                                                                                      WHO IS THE REAL JACKED

                                                                                                      '96 Neve Campbell

                                                                                                        Rofl, imagine having problems, sounds like yall nibbas got brain damage

                                                                                                        Rofl, imagine being this much of a scumbag